Sunday, November 16, 2014

What the dirty little girl needs in a man

While I have been learning, growing and changing in my relationship with daddy, here are a few things I have learned about myself.  In order for me to be happy in a relationship here are some of the things I need...

Treat me like a Queen.  If you don't know what that means, start learning.  Don't call me princess because princess I am not.  Know the difference.  Here are some easy tips...


Show some old school etiquette.  Open the door for me, walk with me instead of several paces ahead, be the one to pay even if we share a bank account.  When you go to the bar to get a drink for yourself, ask me what I may like as well.  Don't always leave me alone at a party for most of the night.  Come be by my side from time to time or maybe even the whole night.  Let people know we are together and be proud to be seen with me.  Shower me with love and lots of public displays of affection when we are out together.  Hold my hand and put your arm around me when we walk.  Let me feel taken care of.


Be sexy with me in public.  Tease and tantalize me and see how much I will want to do sexy, sensual and dirty little things that will turn you on.  Your Queen likes to be seen.  Having fun little displays of sexy interaction throughout the day or in public are sweet and keeps the energy flowing within and between us.


Touch me often.   My need to touch and be touched is so great that without it I feel starved.  I like to be touched in countless ways and in countless places.  My body is a map with hidden treasure.  Take the time to read the signs and you will be sure to find gold.  When you touch me, I become more fully embodied.  I  can totally surrender and open up the great feminine mystery within me.   When I feel truly open, my juices flow abundantly and then I will invite you in and to come more fully into your own divine masculine energy.


Tell me with words how important I am, how much you appreciate all the wonderful little and not so little things I do.  I need to be reminded again and again that I am beautiful, desirable, sexy, sweet and smart and that I turn you on.  I need to be reminded of how amazing I am and why you fell in love with me and why you keep loving me still.


I am a hard working girl.  I do more than you realize, show your appreciation for all that I do.  Taking an equal share of the responsibilities and duties in our home will help keep my stress levels down.  Be thoughtful and responsible.   I will notice what you do and be grateful for it.   When I am happy in my home,  and my energy is abundant and flowing well, I will have more to give and love you well.  Recognize the importance of beauty and support me in creating beauty in our home and in our life.


Keep dating me no matter how many years may go by.  Take me out to eat at a nice restaurant from time to time.  I love to be wined and dined, go for picnics on the beach, spend time in nature.  Just don't always expect me to take care of everything like I usually do.  Be unpredictable.  Surprise me and never forget my birthday.


Sex, let's have it often and in a wide variety of ways.  I like it sweet and I like it kinky.   I like to feel the strong presence of your masculinity.  Be willing to explore it all.  I like to kiss, a lot.  Kissing can be more important than sex.  Learn how to be an amazing kisser and I will be extremely happy.  I will take care of all your sexual needs and gladly.  I am good like that.


Others are going to be important in my life.  I like to share my abundance of love, sensuality and sexuality with the world.   I am willing to go the distance and explore all the ways this may work best in our lives but life is a work in progress, our life will go through many ups and downs and changes.  Be willing to hang in there.   Some of the greatest growth will happen here.


Be willing to always be working on ways to be in the flow of love.  What is most important to me is love, beauty, sensuality, sexuality, my connection to the natural world and my connection to the truth of who I am really am.  Be willing to have conversations that goes beyond the surface of things.  I am a deep diver into the sea of consciousness, be willing to journey there with me.  



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